Tag Archive | Christmas

Return to Sender

 
 
 
Ahh, Elvis…I’ve lusted after him since I was 7 years old! Mmmmm…

Oh, yeah, the reason this video is here…Well, it’s that time of year again. Yup, time to return all those lovely Christmas gifts that your sister-in-law, the dorky guy at the office who was your Secret Santa and your great aunt just knew you’d love. but. you don’t…which is a gross understatement.

I wonder if you received any of these or if you want to exchange a gift you received for one of these:

 
facial mask

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 The Rejuvenique Anti-Aging Mask – Apparently your wrinkles are showing. But you can pretend it’s a Halloween mask! Or, well, do you play hockey?

 
ironing cover

Photo courtesy of thepresentfinder.co.uk

Whomever gives you this is ironing board cover must be under the impression your love life is flat because wait…there’s more, a lot more. When the cover heats up, so will you. You see, this hottie loses his towel when he gets steamy.

Now, for the man in your life:

shower gel

Photo courtesy of thepresentfinder.co.uk

Does your man love playing Psycho in the shower with you? Then blood bath shower gel is just the ticket!

bottle stopper

Photo courtesy of thepresentfinder.co.uk

Is your main squeeze a show-off? Then wouldn’t he love to pull out his ‘Happy Man’ bottle stopper at a party?

If you weren’t the lucky recipient of any of these amazing gifts, I hope they will at least keep you laughing as you stand in those long lines to return that hideous appliqued sweatshirt your Mom gave you or the stiletto boots your little sister thought you could still walk in!

What wacky gifts did you receive for Christmas this year? Did you give anything kinda crazy?

You know I love hearing from you and anxiously await your comments!

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Soothing Sounds of a Merry Christmas!

Come on in!  Sit down in this comfy chair, put your feet up on the ottoman, need a foot massage? I know, you need a break from cleaning, cooking and baking.

Christmas

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Lay your head back, close your eyes and feel the warmth of the fire on your toes.

Let the soft sounds of Christmas envelope you. We have a variety of artists to soothe your tired soul. Enjoy.

Bing Crosby…White Christmas

Rascal Flatts…I’ll be home for Christmas

Celine Dion…O Holy Night

Frank Sinatra…Mistletoe and Holly

Josh Groban…it came upon a midnight clear

Michael Buble and Anne Murray…Baby, It’s cold Outside

Andy Williams…It’s the most wonderful time of year

Ella Fitzgerald…Have yourself a merry little christmas

Martina McBride…The Christmas Song

There now, don’t you feel refreshed and rested? I hope the rest of your day will be relaxed and easy. I wish you all a very Merry Christmas!

We’ll be on the road for the weekend visiting our children in two different cities. I’ll be back online on Tuesday.

What are your plans for the holiday weekend? Please share.

A Guest Post by Author, K.B. Owen

 Please welcome author K.B. Owen to the blog today! Kathy, as a historical fiction author, has graciously agreed to honor us with a fitting post about celebrating Christmas as a 19th century college student… a far cry from the behavior of today’s college students. However, as you read Kathy’s story you’ll find out what was considered ‘unusual’ in the 1880s and how college students, in other ways, are alike generation after generation.

Christmas Traditions in late-19th/early 20th century Women’s Colleges in the U.S.

19th century christmas VassarImagine young ladies, away from home with the holidays approaching, during a time in which it was unconventional for women to undergo such a separation.  In the 19th century, home was a woman’s sphere, the domestic realm over which she ruled.  She didn’t stray far from it.

Around the 1880s/1890s, however, a few of the well-educated daughters of the middle class began to get a little restless.   They were the second wave of female college students, following such pioneer women as Lucy Hobbs, Maria Mitchell, and M. Carey Thomas.  Even so, they didn’t represent a large part of the demographic:

In 1870 only .7% of the female population went to college. This percentage rose slowly, by 1900 the rate was 2.8% and it was only 7.6% by 1920” (AAUW, “Determined to be Educated,” http://www.northnet.org/stlawrenceaauw/college.htm)

These students were also a high-spirited lot, involved not only in their studies, but in all sorts of social activities: clubs, dances, plays, teas, charity work, and so on.  They made the holiday season as festive as possible while away from home, until they could return to their families for the winter recess.  For the time being, the college community was their family, and the holiday activities reflected some of the traditions of society at large.

The following is an excerpt of a December 15, 1901 article from The New York Times, detailing some of the Christmas activities/performances put on by the students of local Vassar College in Poughkeepsie, New York:

19th century christmas Vassar

…a bit omitted here…

19th century christmas Vassar

19th century christmas at Vassar

A brief explanation of some of the above:  the article puts “gentlemen” in quotation marks, and cryptically says: “the ladies and ‘gentlemen’ were distinguishable only by the bows and bells.”  This simply meant that, at a women’s-only college event, some of the women students were obliged to act in the roles of “gentlemen” dance partners.  This was a very common practice at all-female institutions, and didn’t carry the connotations that it might today.

In the play mentioned above, we have a similar situation: an all-female cast necessitated women adopting male roles; hence the quotation marks in the article when referring to a female player in the male role who “quite distinguished ‘himself.’”  Female students were not permitted to adopt male costume (read: trousers), so other props, such as a cloak, hat, or dagger, would be adopted to indicate the role.  There was a very great concern that women attending college would become less feminine, and college officials took steps to avoid that from happening.

So, what do you think of how women students adapted to college life, and the restrictions of their time?  I’d love to hear from you, here on Marcia’s site, and elsewhere!

Feel free to stop by my blog, kbowenmysteries.com, where you’ll find more historical material, as well as posts on mystery fiction and pop culture.  I also tweet at @kbowenwriter.

Marcia, thanks so much for hosting me – it was a privilege and great fun to connect with your readers!

Kathy

K. B. Owen, authorK.B. Owen holds a Ph.D. in 19th century British Literature and taught college literature and writing classes for a number of years.   Since she has always loved mysteries (cozy, historical and otherwise), she decided to turn her hand to writing one of her own.  She recently finished her first novel in a planned series, set at a nineteenth-century women’s college in Hartford, Connecticut.  It’s a world filled with plucky heroines, quirky and beguiling characters, and mischief mixed with murder.  Dr. Owen drew upon her own delightful and varied experiences as a college professor, though unlike her central character, she thankfully did not have to conduct her lectures in a bustle and full skirts.

Kathy, thanks so much for being here and for bringing us a fun and enlightening post! I love learning the mores of different cultural times – some are so similar to today and others can be bizarre!  That the college administrators were concerned that the young women be viewed as anything less than feminine is not so different from today’s views. Though the prim behavior and dress of the late 19th century would not fly in 21st century colleges.

Please show Kathy some comment luv! You know we love hearing from you!

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Memories of Christmas by Sonia G. Medeiros

Welcome to The Life List Club! I am a guest at Gary Gauthier’s blog today, so please come visit after you enjoy my guest here.

As you decorate your tree with ornaments handed down from one generation to another, gather the recipes for holiday foods you’ve made year after year, and send Christmas cards to relatives and friends with whom you have shared many happy memories, revel in the nostalgia and the comforting feeling that side of the Christmas season brings.

I’m happy to welcome Sonia Medeiros, from Not All Who Wander Are Lost, who reminisces about her childhood Christmases and discovers what memories she wants to make with her children. 

christmas candles

Memories of Christmas by Sonia G. Medeiros

As Christmas approaches, this year more than ever, I’ve been reflecting on memories of Christmas past and how I want my children to remember their Christmases.

What is it I remember about Christmas?

Oh sure, there are the presents. I’ll never forget how nerdily excited I was to unwrap the Nancy Drew books my mom got me, or the bike my dad built or the beautiful cloth doll with the long blue dress my grandparents gave me. But my favorite memories of Christmas are the things that weren’t wrapped in shiny paper.

My mom shared her love of eggnog with me and always made sure we were stocked up for the whole season. I always think of her when I drink eggnog and sometimes we’re the only two people in our family who drink it during the holiday (the fifty bazillion calories be darned…do not even show up with the “lite” eggnog!).

I think of my grandfather’s model train running through the living room and around the tree. How I loved to watch it chug along the little track, past the ceramic, Dickenseque village and itty bitty model trees.

I think of the special candles lit only for Christmas.

I think of playing Nerf football in the street with my uncles because Christmas weather was almost always sunny and above 70 degrees where I grew up.

Most of all, I think of all of us sitting around, laughing and talking after the presents have been opened. Munching on stollen and Christmas cookies and enjoying each other. There were Christmases where family tensions ignited but mostly we tried to forget our differences and be together.

Now that I’m a parent, I realize how important that sense of togetherness was, how the joy of the little details far outlasted the shiny presents. We do love to indulge the children from their Christmas wish list but I know that those things will not last as long as the special atmosphere and the family rituals we create.

And, as a parent, it’s easy to get caught up in all the holiday hubbub…finding that “perfect” gift and running from store to store. And I must always keep in mind the memories that really, really last and strive to build those with love and joy and togetherness.

What are your favorite memories of Christmas? What kind of memories are you making now?

Thanks for being with us today, Sonia. I remember feeling the same way as a young mom. Now I see my own daughter creating memorable Christmases for her daughters. This was a lovely post.

Sonia Medeiros

Sonia G Medeiros is a writer of fantasy, science fiction, and horror. She’s the author of more than a dozen short stories and flash fiction pieces, blogs at WordPress, and is working on her first novel, a dark fantasy. When she’s not wandering along the tangled paths of her wild imagination, she wrangles home life with one fabulous husband, two amazing, homeschooled children, three dogs, one frog and two cats who battle each other for world domination.

 

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History of the Christmas Market in Europe – Guest Post by Nicole Basaraba

As we inch our way closer to Christmas, we are usually more and more stressed or just plain worn out from all the shopping, cooking, baking and partying. But, we wouldn’t give it up, would we? I have just the remedy, if that’s how you’ve been feeling.

I’m thrilled to have Nicole Basaraba, who lives in Brussels, Belgium, to tell us about a low-tech, low-stress holiday tradition in Europe. Allow your imagination to conjure up the sights, sounds and aromas of the Christmas Market.  

The history of Christmas markets goes back to the Late Middle Ages in the German speaking part of Europe. The Bautzen Christmas market was first mentioned in records in 1384. The Dresden Christmas market, with over 250 stalls, was first held in 1434 and is one of the oldest Christmas markets and it attracts between 1.5 and 2 million visitors a year. In many towns in Germany and Austria, Advent (coming of Christmas) is usually ushered in with the opening of the Christmas market or “Weihnachtsmarkt”. In southern Germany and Austria it is sometimes called a “Christkindelsmarkt” (in German means “Christ child market”).

Sibiu, Romania

Sibiu, Romania - Christmas market

The markets are generally held in the town square and pedestrian zones, which makes it even more festive. I know the farmers markets in my hometown in Canada are held in the massive parking lots of grocery stores. You just can’t beat the feeling of wandering through a small village made of wooden stalls, covered in Christmas decorations and exuding the smoke of the grills cooking Bratwurst sausages, the sweet smell of “Christstollen” – an egg bread with candied fruit – the spices of hot mulled wine (Glühwein) or even the perfumes of fancy soaps. If you’re lucky you may even get to hear and see traditional singing and dancing. On opening nights onlookers welcome the “Christkind”, or boy Jesus, acted out by a local child.

Fresh-made bread

Fresh-made bread

Advent starts on the fourth Sunday before December 25, the Sunday from November 27 to December 3, inclusive, and this is the time when most Christmas markets begin in Germany. Popular attractions at the market I’ve been to in Cologne, Brussels and Paris, include not only the food, but also the handmade toys, artwork and Christmas tree decorations and ornaments.

Christmas market, Cologne Germany

Cologne, Germany

In Cologne (Germany), Brussels (Belgium) and Paris (France), there are multiple Christmas markets to visit. I really enjoyed the big “Marche de Noel” in La Defense area in Paris. With 350 chalets featuring gifts and goodies from a number of different countries including Germany and even Canada, there is something for everyone. Some other cities that appear to have some excellent Christmas markets are Vienna (Austria) and Sibiu (Romania).

These markets are a Christmas tradition in Europe that I truly enjoy because you can have even more fun while shopping in the open air surrounded by wanderers eating, drinking and laughing instead of trying to push past you to grab the last item on the shelf or get ahead of you in line. The market atmosphere definitely gets you into the Christmas spirit

European ways are so much more relaxed and less commercial. Sounds wonderful to me, Nicole! Thanks for being here.

 How about the rest of you? You know we love hearing from you, so chime in with your feedback on this cool piece of history.

Nicole BasarabaGrowing up in Western Canada, Nicole Basaraba was always skipping to her own beat. Not being a hockey fan, having no skills in skiing or snowboarding, always being cold, and having never tasted maple syrup, she is what you might call a “bad” Canadian. Having studied some history in university and always dreaming of seeing Europe, Nicole moved to Brussels, Belgium to live, work and travel of course. She soon discovered that there is more to Belgium than just its delicious chocolate so she decided to stay in Europe for an undetermined period. Working in print publishing and website content management by day, she writes travel articles, book reviews and other lifestyle/culture articles about her fun and crazy experiences in Europe by night.